There's nothing better than great street art...turning a corner, surprised to find art when it is least expected. I took this last photo last year when Dan and I were in LA meeting my fabulous nephew, Michael, for dinner. The artist is Hagop Belian and you can find out more about him here.
I don't write in my blog as often as I should - there always seems to be something with a higher priority. I regret that, as I don't see the sweet face of my kitty, Toby, on these pages. Toby came to us two years ago, in December, 2014. We had lost our two cats that year - Duke in January and Sydney in September - and it was too quiet in the house. However, I had said to Dan, "no more cats!" and I meant it. Until...
I was on the Facebook Group for Certified Zentangle Teachers and saw a post about this guy, needing a home. He was a 6 year old Himalayan cat, whose owner had died and he lived 3+ hours away. Ridiculous to even contemplate a scruff-muffin, older, uber-hairy boy-who-is-also-a-cat. Maybe a girl dog, but not a cat.
Yet...as hard as I tried, I could not get him off my mind. So one week later, we were meeting his kind caretaker in the parking lot of Friendly's in Lee, MA, half-way in between our respective homes, to take Toby home. Poor kitty. He was scared to death and frankly, so were we. We had never even met this cat and here we were taking responsibility for his care and well-being.
From the post title, you already know what a good move it was for all. Toby slowly accustomed himself to us and Dan and I, to him. They had said he was "a love" and that was so accurate. He purred if you even looked his way and within three months, we were all in love. Here is a more recent photo of Toby helping me out in my studio. The high stool was a favorite spot and he would curl up and go to sleep, keeping me company as I worked.
Look at that handsome face! Who wouldn't love this sweet, gentle boy. He nuzzled his way into my heart and I adored him.
If you noted the past tense, you'll know that this does not end on a happy note. Last weekend, I noticed that Toby had chunked up around his abdomen and it seemed to become more pronounced daily. On Tuesday, we were off to the Vet. He recommended an ultra-sound which we scheduled for yesterday, New Year's Eve. We left our boy at the Vet in the morning and he called later to tell us that the fluid around Toby's abdomen was a result of cancer in some part of his body and that it had spread to his liver, which looked "like swiss cheese." There was no pill that could fix this and he didn't have long.
This is the nightmare of pet owners. Not only are you losing a member of your family but you need to make a decision about euthanizing that family member. Our cat, Sydney, also had cancer and the progression of it was not something we wanted to put Toby through. Our last bit of time with him was yesterday afternoon at the Vet's office and he was his usual loving self. It was devastating but Toby only felt our loving arms around him at the end.
Euthanasia has been called the "last act of love" and I believe it to be true. It takes courage to make the choice and see it through. Dan and I have had to do so three times in the last three years - way too much. Toby was with us for just two years; not long enough. Never the less, we don't regret adopting him. For all the pain we feel at his loss, the affection and joy this little guy brought us puts us well on the plus side of the equation.
This long post is an homage to my sweet boy. It's not important that anyone else reads it - just that I wrote it. If you do read it, please hug your fur babies for me and give them some extra love today.
There is heartbreak at the end of every animal, but they are so worth it.
This photo was taken on the grounds of one of my favorite places... The Four Seasons Biltmore Hotel in Santa Barbara, CA. The hotel is right on the coast and you can enjoy a wonderful meal, surrounded by flowers and hummingbirds, on their terrace overlooking the Pacific Ocean.
Dan and I were there in August, visiting my sister and brother-in-law in beautiful Montecito, CA. We made a point of having breakfast at the Four Seasons on our last day in town, when I snapped this photo. The image seemed fitting company for the quote, another favorite of mine.
Rilke perfectly grasps the excitement and mystery of considering what the future might bring. Whatever that is, it is likely to be full of Life (with a capital L)... love and loss, contentment and fear, loneliness and happy times.
We can work through the lows; by learning to temper pain and disappointments with acceptance and understanding, balance them with love, and seek the beauty in our messy world. Like most, I can't always pull this off, but this new year my intention is to awaken each day with this goal...
Today, I will choose love rather than fear.
I wish the same for you.
I think Murray The Nut brilliantly explains the creative process:
Especially the binge eating. Oh, and napping. Also, cannot forget the random surfing. No. Don't forget internet surfing. For hours. In fact, let's bump that percentage up a bit.
If you are in the Saratoga area, one of our favorite local restaurants is the Iron Roost on Front Street in Ballston Spa. It's a great place for breakfast or lunch and they have gourmet-worthy waffles, sweet or savory. The best option: order one savory and one sweet and share : ) They also have great coffee, locally sourced ingredients, exposed brick walls, handmade decorations ~ all in an adorable small town.
Oh, my goodness. It is raining today. Again. I can deal with that but sheesh, it's been raining daily for weeks. I was starting to feel mossy and thought, what cheers me? How about a cup of spicy chai tea, in my favorite mug.
So here's to rainy days, a pretty cup full of hot tea and some creative time in my studio.
What cheers you?
Tim Holtz Summer Seasonal Distress Inks are bold and beautiful. The colors include: Picked Raspberry, Salty Ocean and Mowed Lawn... yum.
Stampassion also has the matching re-inkers, so do your inky best—you won't run out!
Check out Tim's video all about this wonderful new palette of Distress colors...
Claudine Hellmuth is featuring an easy-peasy transfer technique on her blog today, using Ranger's Foil Tape Sheets. The Foil Sheets come in two sizes and I'm picturing the smaller size here—which includes six, 4.25" by 5.5" sheets.
Do we have them at Stampassion.com? Yes we do! First, check out Claudine's tutorial via the link below. Just click below and scroll down to the February 21 post:
Next, check out the Foil Tape Sheets by clicking here. Transfer techniques are generally tricky and messy. I'll be trying this one because it doesn't appear to be either of those.
Thank you Claudine!
I find the Handmade Ryan Gosling captioned photos to be so clever and funny. Don't we just wish! Check them all out. Meanwhile, this one is for my knitting buddies. You know who you are...I dabble, you are masters of the art.
And let's remember... what's good for the goose, is good for the Gosling.